Friday Team Leadership Challenge: Spot One Team Pattern — and Suggest a Better One

By Coach Faisal London • 29 May 2025

Friday Team Leadership Challenge: Spot One Team Pattern — and Suggest a Better One

Why Great Teams Don’t Just Perform — They Evolve

High-performing teams don’t just hit goals.
They grow from them.

They ask:
“What helped us succeed?”
“What slowed us down?”
“What’s repeating that we haven’t addressed yet?”

Because every team runs on patterns:

  • The way meetings start and end
  • How feedback is given (or avoided)
  • Who speaks up — and who stays silent
  • How deadlines are met — or missed
  • How priorities are communicated — or miscommunicated
These patterns either drive momentum…
Or quietly kill it.

And most teams don’t see the pattern until it’s a problem.

That’s where leadership shows up.

The Challenge — Spot One Pattern, Suggest a Better One

🟩 When to Do It
📅 Friday — during your team’s end-of-week reflection, a wrap-up meeting, Slack thread, or even solo journaling.

🟩 What to Do
Reflect on this week. Choose one pattern you observed in your team — something recurring that affected collaboration, energy, focus, or results.

Then:
🔹 Name it
🔹 Share it (if appropriate)
🔹 Suggest a better version

💬 Examples:

  • “We tend to wait until Friday to align — what if we did a 10-min Tuesday touchpoint?”
  • “We use three tools for updates — can we consolidate to one?”
  • “We’re not clear on who owns what — can we try using clear task handoffs in meetings?”
  • “We all multitask during standups — can we go camera-on for 15 minutes to reset energy?”

You don’t need to be the manager.
You just need to be the one who notices and nudges.

Why This Is the Challenge That Builds Culture — Not Just Clarity

Most teams fix problems only when they hurt.

But strong teams evolve through reflection — not reaction.

This challenge:
✅ Helps you spot what’s draining the team
✅ Gives you a voice in shaping how the team works
✅ Moves the team from “default mode” to designed collaboration

A study by Google’s Project Aristotle found that the #1 factor in high-performing teams wasn’t skill, IQ, or strategy.

It was psychological safety — the ability for people to speak up about what’s not working.

This challenge builds that.

What Leadership Skills This Builds

✅ Systems thinking
✅ Constructive observation
✅ Collaborative problem-solving
✅ Communication clarity
✅ Courage to speak up
✅ Change leadership
✅ Culture shaping

Most people are too busy reacting to improve the system.

But leadership asks:

“What are we doing — and can we do it better?”

Pitfalls to Watch For

🚫 You think, “It’s not my job.”
If you’re part of the team, it’s your culture. This is your job.

🚫 You fear people will take it personally.
Patterns ≠ people. Talk about behaviours, not blame.

🚫 You stay vague.
General feedback like “communication could be better” doesn’t help. Be specific.

🚫 You wait for someone else to notice.
By then, the cycle may have repeated five more times.

🎯 Overcome It By:

  • Naming patterns with respect
  • Framing suggestions as experiments
  • Asking questions, not just offering opinions
  • Using “we” instead of “you”

Pattern-Shifting Scripts That Build Safety

Here’s how to bring up a pattern without friction:

💬 “I’ve noticed we tend to ___ — I wonder if we could try ___ next week.”

💬 “One small tweak that might help is ___ — would love to hear thoughts.”

💬 “I don’t know if anyone else feels this, but ___ keeps happening. What do we think about trying ___?”

💬 “Can we experiment with ___ next week and see if it makes things smoother?”

These scripts work because:

  • They invite conversation
  • They don’t assume blame
  • They focus on improvement, not critique

Real-World Use Cases by Role

🔹 Team Leads: Model it. Use this challenge in retros or team check-ins.
🔹
New Joiners: Offer fresh eyes. New perspectives often spot broken habits.
🔹
Remote Teams: Patterns hide easier. Surfacing them brings clarity across screens.
🔹
Fast-Growth Startups: Patterns form faster than you realise — and compound if unexamined.
🔹
Nonprofits & Public Teams: Legacy habits can hold teams back. Invite fresh dialogue.

How to Frame Your Reflection

Use this simple framework:

  1. Pattern: What do we keep doing that isn’t working?
  2. Impact: What’s it costing us?
  3. Idea: What could we try differently?

💡 Example:

  • Pattern: We spend 15 mins just syncing on tasks in standups.
  • Impact: Little time left for problem-solving.
  • Idea: Try async updates, and use live time for roadblocks and support.

Why This Is the Leadership Challenge That Sticks

You can’t change what you don’t notice.
And you won’t change what you won’t name.

This challenge trains your team to:
✅ See what’s under the surface
✅ Care enough to improve it
✅ Lead with curiosity, not control

When that happens weekly, culture evolves organically — not through all-hands meetings or generic “values” posters.

FAQ – What Leaders Ask About Team Pattern Feedback

“What if I bring up something and no one agrees?”
That’s okay. You’ve still sparked awareness. The shift might come next time.

“What if I’m the only one who sees it?”
Invite others: “I may be off here, but has anyone else noticed...?” Reflection is a shared muscle.

“What if I don’t have a suggestion?”
Just name the pattern. Then ask: “What would make this easier?”

“What if my suggestion doesn’t work?”
You’re not offering perfection — you’re inviting experimentation. That’s leadership.

How to Make This a Habit Without More Meetings

  1. 🔁 Use Slack or MS Teams to drop a “Friday Pattern” thread
  2. ✏️ Share a simple prompt in your team wrap-up:
“What’s one thing we did this week that we could improve next week?”
  1. 🧭 Create a 5-minute “Review & Rebuild” ritual on Fridays

The more normal this is, the more safe it feels.

Weekly Impact Summary – What This Challenge Unlocks

When done well, this Friday challenge leads your team to:

✅ Close the week with insight
✅ Begin next week with alignment
✅ Build a bias toward optimisation
✅ Normalize team feedback
✅ Elevate shared ownership

This isn’t a process.
It’s a culture habit.

The teams that grow fast don’t just work hard.
They work smarter — together.

Want to Build Pattern-Shifting into Your Team's DNA?

Coach Faisal London delivers a structured rhythm of weekly micro-challenges that:

✅ Build leadership behaviour from the inside
✅ Fit your industry, goals, and culture
✅ Create real-time growth — not just post-it notes and platitudes

You don’t need another course.

You need:

  • A system
  • A tone
  • A coach who knows how teams evolve

Let’s talk about your custom 12-week leadership rhythm.

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In 15 minutes, we’ll map:

  • Your team’s current culture
  • Your friction points
  • A weekly leadership flow that fits your reality

No fluff. Just a real system that grows people while they work.

About Coach Faisal London – Weekly Leadership that Builds Culture

We don’t run workshops.
We build leadership systems that your team lives and feels — every single week.

✔️ Practical.
✔️ Psychological.
✔️ Powerful.

Whether you’re running a team in media, tech, nonprofit, education, or government — we tailor our rhythm to your rhythm.

Every week, your team gets:
🔹 Monday: Ownership
🔹 Wednesday: Presence
🔹 Friday: Growth

That’s the culture.
That’s the system.
That’s what they’ll remember.

Because leadership isn’t just about what you know.

It’s about how you change what’s normal — one pattern at a time.

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